OK, in class we talked a bit about the idea of Culture Shock. Remember, this is the idea that a person can be rather surprised when moving from one environment to another that has different sets of values, traditions, and so on. Chris Bawer gave us a nice example of experiencing culture shock when he visited Germany and the general lack of diversity. But, as I mentioned in class, the idea of culture shock isn’t limited to just different countries. We can experience culture shock here within the United States, within Ohio, and even within Columbus.
I talked about my experience growing up in a suburban, middle class white suburb of Cleveland. But at the same time I worked in my Dad’s store which was located in a poor, urban neighborhood. I feel as though this exposure to diversity and other cultures and communities at such a young age has, in a lot of ways, prepared me for things later in life. But imagine the culture shock people can have as they move from one community (e.g. the suburbs) to another community (e.g. the ‘ghetto’ or the ‘farm’). Has anyone ever experienced culture shock before? Tell me about it! What sorts of things did you learn? Did this sort of culture shock help break stereotypical views of certain communities or groups of people? Or did your experience only reinforce the stereotype? And, maybe more importantly, why do you think values and ideas, practices and traditions differ from one community to another? How did things get to be the way they are? Again, don’t be afraid to examine the relationship between living in Westerville versus maybe living in a poor urban area.
Tuesday, May 12, 2009
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Well i used to live in North Carolina and yes that is the country! haha but suprisingly there are rich parts in the country the same as here. i did live in a white neighbor hood but when getting out of that it was poor and dirty! Many people think of the beach as an amesome place and clean and fun, well acutally it is one of the dirtest places around. From living in north carolina i learned that even in other states it is the same as here i also lived in florida and many see floridians as rich and stuck up, well stuck up yes rich not so much yes there are def rich parts but when u drive 5 mins from that it is poor as pooor can be! The reason i think we look down upon certin places or spots of town is going back to where everything gets stated is stero typing, every place is named by people for example nc- country,hicks, oh- cold, stuck up northnerns, cally- Rich, gay state everywhere has a stero type but actually all of these are everywhere maybe each state just shows it differently! but i did love north carolina even though i am puat into a catagory of country girl, although i am still called a rich kid from westerville which by the way is not true lol!!
ReplyDeleteso anywhere we go we are def culture shocked, wether we go to that town, state, or country and also we get culture shocked by people and how they present them selfs! ( for example- country ppl no ia m from South)
ReplyDeleteI also moved here from the Carolinas but I lived in South Carolina. I lived in what you would call the boonies or the sticks. We had four acres of just woods and we were surrounded by farms. When i moved here i did have to get use to the new enviroment. For one thing instead of hearing crickets at night I heard sirens. I also couldn't out walking at night but everything was closer, so during the day I could walk to get almost anything. Where I use to live we would have to drive a half hour to reach the closest WalMart.
ReplyDeleteThe summer before sophomore year i went to australia! it was so much fun and i def experienced culture shock! everyone there was so laid back and had "no worries". If anything bad every happened everyone would just be like dont worry about it.. its not a big deal. but here everyone would freak out, even if it is something little! Most of the time when people talk about culture shock it seems negative, but for me i loved the diffrent culture! it was so cool to see how relaxed everyone was! The cool thing about it was that they were so chill but were really hard workers at the same time! I stayed with a family there and i had so much fun getting to know them. They lived on a farm so they always had work to do, yet they made it so much fun & not a big deal at all! i know if my family had that much work to do we would all get stressed and yell at each other! i loved australia so much and learning their culture!
ReplyDeleteI think culture shock is everywhere around us. From just leaving Westerville and going into downtown Columbus and areas such as the Short North, which is very artsy, exposes us to different cultures. Instead of seeing middle-class people walking around in suits or backyard football games taking place, you see people outside painting, playing instruments, or wearing something unique and different.
ReplyDeleteOne experience I had with Culture Shock was last summer when I went to Norris Lake, Tennesse with my boyfriends family. They go there every year to go boating on the lake and always told me "wait until you see the town around the lake!" I didn't really know what to expect but my sterotypes were proven somewhat true. Most of the people in the town were lower class, white confederates. Driving through the hills to get to the lake we passed numerous confederate and KKK signs that made all of us uncomftorable! Overall, I think culture shock will always been a part of America and different places!
I have lived all over...from the straight up hood to the straight up rural country. i dont remember living in cleveland that much but i remember living in some very urban areas. Westerville is much nicer and i have grown use to the easy living life in westerville. thats probably why not many people leave westervillel ohio because in my opinion its one of the nicest cities in the entire world.
ReplyDeleteI really haven't experienced culture shock too much. I guess the most cultral shock i have experienced was when our football team played marysville. They had only one colored person on their team and he never even played. We have plenty of african americans that play on our team. Let's just say that the "n" word was dropped quite a few times. It was really wierd hearing it legitamitly addressed to one of my friends. We are so use to having diversity on our team and in our suburban area. Like I said they had one African American on their team. The only reason the communities differ from one another is because we actually have minorities that go here, unlike in marysville where its still considered a red-neck area.
ReplyDeleteYea like i was saying in class tuesday when i when i went to Germany and various countries over in Europe. When my family and i first arrvie in Europe our first encounter of culture shock was the unfriendly welcome by the German police. Another that we encountered was that Europe was extremely eco-friendly having numbers of way to find energy outlets such as windmills. I thought that America was very eco-friendly but upon coming back i discovered that we were lacking. Also i was preparing myself for a third world like living area because of all that i have been told by others. However when i arrive i was taken aback by how clean and sanitary it was. However i have experience cultural shock with the boarders of the United States. For example i lived in New York for a while and when we moved to Ohio a very slow pace area i was struggling to assimilate to this culture that was very structured and controlling. However i think is over time you assimilate to a culture you deny yourself the experience of being amazed by a new culture.
ReplyDeleteOn Thanksgiving Break in 2006 my family went to Germany for a week because we had a wedding to attend. It was completely different from the culture herein the United States. It was a lot of fun but difficult to adjust to. In Germany you had to pay for condements, you had to ask for ice in your drink, if you wanted water you had to ask for water without bubble/carbonation. You had to pay to use the restroom and they only had three kinds of pop in the whole country no matter the restaurant, coke, sprite, and orange fanta. It was a lot of fun but very difficult.
ReplyDeleteI haven't really experienced culture shock by visiting another neighborhood os state or anything, but I have experinced similar things. I am a christian and I go to a church that is mostly white. A couple of weekends ago, I went to a church with a friend of mine. The church was an all black church. The church was WAY different than my church. The songs we sang were different. The teachings were preached a lot different. The vibe of the church was also a lot different. My church is a more quieter type of church, while his church is very loud. I felt really out of place there, but I accepted the experience. Two weekends ago the same friend came to my church...he was very surprised we did things the way we did. It was cool to see his expressions on my church. I like to visit with him though because it's just a totally different experience.
ReplyDeletei have experienced cultural shock before, for example when i moved from new york to ohio. the way i use to live in new york changed when i came here, because i really dont go out as often as i used to in new york because is really not that much lively and crowded here and the stores are not that many in ohio, also the way we learn here is more of like a higher standad, in new york we are spoon feed with everything ,also the way we dress is different from the way we dress here in ohio .also some the words we use to express our self in NY is different from some of the words we use in ohio.but with time i got used to it .
ReplyDeleteLike with matt lowe a big experience of culture shock with-in our own state was when we played marysville. I think this year when we played them i saw 1 black kid on their team and he didnt even get in to play. it was a totally different enviornment because the kid on the other team were openly using the "n" word. plus with the wide range of diversity in westerville most of our starters were black. Another kinda culture shock is that im from west virginia. The part i lived in wasnt as red neck as the southern part but u still could see some differences in the way people act, talk, and dress. il just say that most of the red neck steriotypes are true lol
ReplyDeletei was born in philadepiha and raised So when i came here, it was really different , the people talked different and there was alot of rural areas , where we came from had alot of urban areas so it was a little hard to adapt to at first.i think as time passes by you get use to different areas.
ReplyDeleteWhen I was 14 I got to go to Japan. I was very scared not knowing the language or a lot of the culture. In my time there I found out they are some of the nicest people I have ever met. They tried to include me in almost everything. They had a lot of Amercanized things there, such as clothes and resteraunts, which made me feel more at home. What helped a lot is that a lot of Japanese people know english there. They learn it at a young age, so a lot of them are fluent. The stereotypes of them being strict about school and sports were true. I don't know if that is a bad stereotype or not depending on how you look at it. I see it as a good thing. I feel thats why a lot of people over there are succesful, they have one of the lowest crime rates, and one of the cleanest places in the world.
ReplyDeletei myself have only experienced a minor culture shock. a couple years ago i went to visit some of my family in alabama. down there isnt a lot different depending on how you look at it and think of it when your not there. if your not expecting anything different then it can shock you but if you are expecting it then it doesnt really seem like that big of a deal. the only thing that shocked me was not a lot of people but a few people had confederate flags either in there front yards or i saw a couple people driving around with them hanging off there cars. i didnt expect this so it kind of shocked me and its just one of those things you think to yourself why would people do this or bring this image to them self.
ReplyDeleteI have experienced many "cultural shock" in my life.I would have to say the biggest one would be moving from Panama to the US, only because in Panama to me it seemed everyone was nice and caring and being yanked out of there to a completely foreign place and every new person i met was mean and made fun of me for not being American, but I am American, I just may not have been born here. Another "cultural shock" would be from when I moved out of my mom's, who lived in the south side of Columbus, one of the ghetto-est places, to moving in with my aunt and uncle over here in Westerville.
ReplyDeleteI had experince a cultural shock . It happen this year from moving schools . I use to go to school in pickerington but now i moved up here in westerville. It was just weird not knowing anyone here at all . What i herd about westerville is that there rich and preppy. When i got here There werent really rich and preppy to me.
ReplyDeleteI really haven't experienced culture shock to the extent of most/some of the people above.
ReplyDeleteThe only thing I can really use as an example is going back to Virginia Beach. I was born there but didn't stay long. Their culture is very southern rooted...for example there are a lot of racists down there. There are confederate flags everywhere, and also it's a very military rich city with the Oceana Naval Base being located there, and the worlds largest Naval base being located less than 50 miles away. They are very patriotic and proud our troops there, more so than we are here by far. The last time I was down there was during spring break when the Captain of the freighter was kidnapped by Somali pirates. It was a really big deal down there, and we checked into the news every night to get an update on the situation. When I came back to Ohio, there were very few people that were aware of what happened.
The two biggest culture shocks i had were moving here to Westerville from my home town out in watkins/pataskala/canal winchester.. what ever you want to call it. The other would have to be living in an orphanage in La Mision,Mexico. When i moved away from Watkins to Westerville it was probably the scariest thing i have ever experienced in my entire life. I went to an all private school where i had been in the same classes with the same people since i was in preschool. Going to a private school made me really sheltered, and consistent. When i say consistent i mean i always spent time with the same people everyday, nothing really switched up. Coming to Westerville was probably the biggest culture shock of my life. I honestly had never heard of Westerville, but alot of people probably feel the same about Watkins. Enrolling into WCHS my freshmen year was so different. There were still alot of white people like i was used to and comfotable with back home, but i had never seen so much diversity in one place my entire life. Now living here in Westerville i love it here, and it has becomce my home. I see why alot of people like to come back and start families of there own. The second biggest culture shock of my life was taking a trip to La MIsion, Mexico to stay in an orphanage for two weeks. While staying in Mexico i got to learn alot about the culture which was really different to me. All of the children were beautiful and really welcoming. It was as if they looked foward to learing all the different things we do in America. While in Mexico we took a trip to Tijuana. It was probably the saddest thing i have seen in my entire life. Trash built up 25 feet into the sky right next door to houses, and schools. The area was so overwhelmingly poor that all you could really do was cry. The families there are so greatful for what they have, and really do apperciate there culture for what it is.
ReplyDeleteI used to live in New Jesrsey 7 years ago and moving to westerville was very different for me. In New Jersey I grew up in a poor neighborbood and moving to westerville was different because it was a little better off than my old neighborhood, it was more developed because it had more houses developed and many more people were outside playing with their families. and it was different because i wasnt used to people being out and friendly with me, and i got to play outside with my neighbors more where in my old neighborhood i usually just stayed inside.
ReplyDeleteI think possible culture shocks surround us everywhere we go, whether we personally experience it or not. For example, maybe your neighbor has a completely different lifestyle than you do. Even going Downtown has a totally differnt atmosphere than Westerville. I think people should get out of their little bubbles more often and experience these different ways of life. People would learn when they are in these different environements (about themselves and other people).
ReplyDeleteI go to Alabama every summer for a week and just last summer my cousins took me to what they call "the redneck beach." Which is basically the end of a river that they built into a swimming pool w/ sand, swings, and slides. However, when walking in my aunt noticed a sign posted right on the front of the building saying "no watermelons allowed." Which in plain terms means no black people allowed inside. I was very put off by this and knew they still had problems in the South but thought things like that would of been at least hidden and not so forward about it. This deffinately reinforced the belief that racism is still allowed to happen out in the open and people are allowed to get away with it.
ReplyDeleteI was born in Ohio but moved to South Carolina when I was like 3 months old. When I lived there i lived in an appartment right outside of the city in a more country enviornment. But I moved back to ohio in like kindergarden and didn't really notice a difference besides the fact that it was a different scenary. But as I grew up I noticed differences more and more, and even still today. For example people in South Carolina seem more friendly and open to get to know you than here in Ohio. I'm not trying to bash Ohioians or anything its just something I've noticed. And the driving is alot different. One of my friends and I were talking about the differences between Ohio and where we came from (she's from VA) and she was telling me about how people used to stop in the middle of the road to talk to friends and nieghboors to catch up and people would just pull around the conversation and go on there way without a second glance; no one really cared because chances are you knew them too. In Ohio everyone seems to be in a rush to get somewhere and people have alot of road rage. I'm not saying that there isn't any in South Carolina or Virgina, i'm just saying that people won't fight you to get to the other lane even if they're running late. It's more layed back. A typical afternoon was sitting around on the porch with family and friends just talking. And every weekend here I feel like everyone is always doing something. (That maybe though because this is more of a city life than where I came from)
ReplyDeleteBefore I moved to Westerville I lived on the eastside of Columbus. I experienced a culture shock moving from our old neighborhood to my current neighborhood. My neighbors in my old neighborhood weren't mean but my neighbors now are a lot more friendlier. Whenever we drive down the street they always wave and say hi. I remember when we first moved out here and our drive way needed to be shoveled, I looked outside and our neighbors were already shoveling our snow. In my old neighborhood most of my neighbors kept to themselves. In this neighborhood everybody talks to everyone on the street.
ReplyDeleteI have experienced some sort of small culture shook. When i first went to the Delaware Area Career Center my junior year I meet kids of all over central Ohio. Most of the kids that go there are from Buckeye Valley High School. If you don't know where that is it's in Delaware, Ohio. Aka the middle of nowhere. The best thing about the school is not that it's across from a corn field but they actually have 'Bring Your Tractor To School Day'. How weird is that? I was so baffled when I heard this. The kids that go there are mostly country folk, which wear cowboy hats and have bad sun burns. It's so crazy to think that if you drive north for 30 minutes you'll get nothing but fields and farmers. Most of the kids have never been to Easton Mall and own guns. I don't think most of them have even been to big cities like Columbus. Buckeye Valley isn't the richest school district so from what I hear about the inside of the schools isn't very appealing. The kids can also be excused from school to go hunting!! That’s what they consider to be a fun time. I feel bad for the kids sometimes because Westerville is a little bit more blessed when it comes to funding so we have the ability to have more opportunity to be creative. We have an amazing art and music programs with wonderful teachers. But the kids at BV complain how much they don't like being there because it's so useless. If only they could have the same possibilities as us Central students then maybe they wouldn't hate going to school so much.
ReplyDeleteI also have realized how different Westerville and Delaware is when it comes to politics. Delaware is a very conservative community but Westerville seems to be more of a democrat society. Farms I guess are just usually Republican and city dwellers are usually more Liberal. I've heard that the more educated you are the more liberal you'll be. But I lots of country folk that are educated but still conservative. I guess it's just from tradition passed down that the rural communities become more republican.
While growing up I lived in southwest Va-borderlines of NC and TN-very rural, southern, and small;very small. Moving from a little town where everyone knows everyone and everything about everyone else it was a HUGE cultural shock moving to Westerville/Columbus/to the cities. In Va when driving down the street you could stop when you see a car pass you that you know and just chat in the middle of the street without getting yelled at or get honked at..here everyone is focused on where they are going and just getting there. Stoping for chitchat is NOT an option unless you want to get rammed up the rearend. Also in Va you welcomed anyone into your home-stranger or not-and just let them sit with you, getting to know where they've been and where they're going. There were not suburbs or big city. The closest mall was 45 minutes away with only 4 stores and a theater with wooden seats. Here its the busy life-new ideas, with lots of people, where not all are trusted so you stick with your "group" and your group alone. Moving here was a major change, some negative changes (the trust factor, and social driving) but some good-because living in a small town with the same people your whole life leaves you with only those people and those ideas-nothing changes. You are who you are and no new ideas are brought to you leading to close mindedness and judgemental attutides-while in the north everyone seems to be more open with new ways of living, just not as trusting to every stranger that walks down the streets.
ReplyDeleteEvery summer we my family and i go down to my fathers home town to visit with my grandparents and my other relatives. Any way to see where my father came from and where he is now you would be suprised.If you thought westerville was small then you have seen anything. And if you think the "ghetto's" here are bad then you for sure havnt seen anything. This was a shock for me because if my grandfather hadnt taken the oppurtunity that he had to come to Ohio and get a job here who knows were i would be.
ReplyDeleteI have actually never experienced culture shock--at least not that I can remember. I think this is probably because from a very young age I was exposed to many different cultures and I've grown up around them. I used to live in Powell, which is stereotypically an upper-middle class area, but my neighborhood had people of many cultures. One of my good friends as a child was a girl named Monica whose parents were from Mexico. I was able to go over to their house and eat their food and partake in a lot of their cultural celebrations. Another friend, Kajal, was Indian, and I got to see her family's traditions as well. When I moved to Westerville, there was less diversity, but that didn't phase me. My mom went on a mission's trip to Africa when she was 18 or 19 years old, and her stories about her experiences have really opened my mind to differences between cultures. I've been all over the country and in a few other countries, too, but the change has never affected me. I just kind of adjust. I think if I were to go to a third world country and see true poverty, I would probably experience culture shock more, but I haven't so far. I enjoy other cultures--even ones that are not as fortunate as my own. Most other cultures are very kind if you don't appear condescending and closed-minded.
ReplyDeleteI personaly have not lived any where else besides ohio. So my life is basicaly a bunch of subars. But we I went to vist my brother who goes to college at the universty of Cinninatty I got to see alot of different new things. Got to see a lot of homless people and I got to see how they lived which looked pretty bad. The enviroment just felt different like the air had something in it that changed eveything around us. The ground just looked nasty and the buildings look like they havent been cleaned in ages. Im glad I got to see this because I get to see that not everywhere in the U.S is a perfect little city and has more history to it.
ReplyDeleteI think the only culture shock I have been through is last summer when I went to NYC for a day. It wasn’t really negative or positive I just felt out of place. Everything there was just so much more up to beat and faster. Like one time I was just walking across the street thinking nothing of it and before I know it a taxi was an inch away from me. Everyone just moved so faster. It was like everyone was a mission and they were determined to get where they were going. Also the sidewalks and everything where really dirty. You would always see trash blowing around or homeless people curled up on front door steps.
ReplyDeleteI haven't really experienced that much of a culture shock before. I guess just going downtown to the pooper parts of town can be seen as a culture shock. Oh, well I just remembered this one time that I went to New York and saw a homeless person sleeping in a public building. This was different because I've never personally seen a homeless person in Westerville, in a bathroom before. So I guess that's the biggest culture shock I've ever experienced.
ReplyDeleteMy family loves to travel, so at a young age I experienced many different cultures. This did not, however, make visiting family in Texas any less shocking. I always thought saying ya'll was just a stereotype. I was wrong. Throughout the south almost everybody I talked to said ya'll. It was just a part of their language. My Aunt's mother was the definition of a stereotypical southern women. She had the accent, the vocabulary, the values, the pushy religious views, and was controlling. Even though most of the people I met there were the stereotype I expected I'm not ruling out the idea that not everybody fits into the stereotype.
ReplyDeleteculture shock is a weird thing to experience and it can give u good views on thing and it can enforce the bad ones. I have only majorly traveled out of the country once and that was to Poland. that was a decent culture shock. It was weird it wasn't 100% different but their very religious. and their buildings are very old and pretty. i stayed in a city that was calibrating its 700th anniversary i think. They walk all most every were and if they don't walk they use the bus a lot. they had some bland foods when i'm used to spicy food. There were also apparently a lot of stereotypes for polish people that i didn't know of and they were brought up a lot and i was just confused.
ReplyDeleteI feel like most people in the world have expierenced some form of culture shock unless you stay in one place your whole life. In the United States there are many different cultures in different places so you can expierence many different cases of culture shock. Most people who leave there original culture start to act a different way to blend in with the dominate culture. When people come to the United States they change the way they live there lives so they can be succesful in the United States.
ReplyDeleteYes i expierenced a culture shock when i was in the second half of 8th grade I moved from columbus schools into westerville schools. This was a big change for me because the diversity in columbus schools was really slim, while in westerville I seen a lot more. I believe that this was very important to be put in a school that had diverstiy, being the reason that it'll get me ready for the real world.
ReplyDeleteIn the first grade i got the opportunity to leave the country for the first time in my life and visit the wonderful city Venice. I don't remember much but the culture there have a much different life style than we have here in the United State. Mainly i think this is because most of the city is underwater and the people had to adapt to that kind of living style. From what i remember there wasn't much diversity there with majority being white.
ReplyDeletei used to live in Apple Valley (about 5 miles away from Mt. Vernon) for 8 years , uncluding most of my childhood. It is a small place to live so their isn't that much diversity. When i moved to Westerville in 6th grade it was kind of a shock to see all the diversity within the middle school. And then hangin out with my older brother, he had different friends. It isn't that I didnt like it I just definately was not accustomed to it. I would have have to say that moving to a more diverse comunnity has and will benefit me for the future.
ReplyDeletei have lived in a few different places through out my life and i gotta say every time i leave one place and go to another its overwhelming sometimes. for example when i moved to ohio from california, i was so completely lost. everything was different. the way people talked, the way they behaved. i just had to adjust to the new lifestyle while still maintaining what made me, me. i happen to think that although it was shocking to me to be in such a different place they change has bettered me as a person.
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ayo! i was born in new york, and it is far from ohio as far as culture and stuff like that goes. when i moved here everything seemed so much nicer and more welcoming but the diversity in ohio was much different than in the city, yah dig? cause i lived in an area where just about everybody was black or minority in general. then i moved to ohio and found out that its good to know a variety of people rather than just one set group
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I was bron and raised in columbus ohio on karl rd, which isnt the best place to live. But my freshmen year i went to beechcroft which a black school. And i was use to going to a class of about 22 people and only 2 of them were white when we moved to westerville it was different i never seen so many white people in a small city. And just us moving there were break in or anything wrong so yea it was kind of funny to me
ReplyDeleteI dont think that a person has to travel long distances to experienc culture shock. I think that there can be a culture shock when traveling from Westerville to New Albany or downtown Columbus. I think this can even go as small as between North Westerville and South Westervile.
ReplyDeleteThe biggest culture shock that i have experienced recently is probablly when i went to Atlanta for spring break. There was a large majority of black people, and acceptable behaviors were different. When walking down the street EVERYONE had to make a commetn about my friend and i and tell us how "beautiful" we were. There were many behaviors that were different in Atlanta.
I would have to agree with mackenzie. You can easily go to the neighborhood over and it will be a completelt different culture. Whether the neighborhood is wealthy or not.I went to New york last year and I just remember getting off the subway in brooklyn and being completetly shocked. It was so run down and ghetto basically. So many Afrrican Americans live there and there were so many homeless people. The people that lived there thought we were rich and were loaded with money so all they did was beg. We helped them out a little but couldn't do much about it.
ReplyDeleteokay, you might not know this but i was not born in america. i was born in this country in africa called kenya and i came here when i was like four or something. anyways when i was younger i always use to hear stories about america and white people being the majority. the funny thing about it is that i never knew african americans ever lived in america so i was pretty shocked when i saw them walking around the streets. it really hit me in the face at the time so basically what i'm trying to say is that culture shock does exist.
ReplyDeletei went to this little island called St. lucia. even tho i was twelve i was amazed by the land. in only the rich areas (beach resorts)would u see a white man. everywhere else you will see the black man in the poorest of houses. dogs and cattle and sheep tied to trees women and boys beggin on the street. we went to this place where there was a beautiful view of the ocean and next to this was what i thought an outhouse. it wasnt a old lady came out, nicest ull ever meet and asked us how we like St. lucia. inside she had a blanket pillow and few appliances and food. the best part was that with the little she had she was the happiest person ever. this changed my view on life so much. no matter what happens happiness is always possible. she's was and still is my inspiration. if u want i will show u some video clips.
ReplyDeleteI MOVED HERE FROM ELIZABETH CITY, NORTH CAROLINA. IT WAS A SMALL TOWN, A VERY SMALL TOWN. LIKE EVERYBODY KNEW EVERYBODY. U COULDNT DO ANYTHING W/O NOBODY KNOWING. BUT WHEN WE MOVED HERE THERE WAS BIG CHANGE. COLUMBUS IS VERY BIG COMPARED TO WHERE I USED TO LIVE. WHEN I CAME HERE I WAS KIND OF SCARED BECAUSE I DIDNT KNOW NOBODY. BUT AFTER A WHILE I BEGAN TO LIKE IT ALOT. I GOT TO MEET ALOT OF NEW PEOPLE EVERYDAY..AND NOT SEE THE SAME PEOPLE OVER AND OVER AGAIN.
ReplyDeleteI experienced some culture shock over spring break when i went down to Tennessee for the week. Everything is so different down there, its almost as if everybody knows everybody. It's a big state filled with small towns, ones small enough that you could know ever one from the date they were born till the date they died. I liked it down there a lot, because of the fact that they are all so welcoming and the view from any where was awesome! But up here is more suburbs and cities, where you may know a handful of people but there is no way that you could know evry single person....at least I havent met any one who does. I dont even know everyone who goes to this school. It's kind of nice not knowing everyone because it gives you the chance to meet new people.
ReplyDeleteive experienced culture shock a couple of times, the worst one ive experienced is when i went down to chilicothe for the first time to visit some firneds. The environment and people are different, theres alot more whites then minoritys, alot more farm land, and old small towns. But me being mixed was the problem because i would get stares from people alot and when i went to go eat with my friends i would always be the only minority in the place. So it was a big shock to me but i knew it was going to be like that and it doesnt really affect me that much.
ReplyDeleteWhen I went through the West we came upon the Native American reservations. That was a big shock. They were very, very poor. THey were selling little Native American things on the side of the road. The poverty was so depressing. We went to the local Wal-Mart and it was the only nice thing there. They also made little to no contact to us. It was a very different thing to go through.
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